My
boyfriend and I have been together for six months now. We both trust each other
but there is one thing that he has told me that has bothered me ever since.
He told me that condoms make him go limp. I've just never heard of this before.
He told me about this the first time we were about to have sex. What are your
thoughts?
Here are some suggestions you can try:
1) Assist him putting the condom on. Some men find themselves nervous about
putting the condom on correctly and go limp at that point. Tell him that you
will take care of it. Touch him any way he likes and in the process, roll the
condom (which you have opened and ready) on.
2) Put a bit of lubricant in the inside tip of the condom before putting it
on him. This can add sensation greatly for the man. But be careful and don’t
get any on the upper rim or he might lose the condom during sex.
3) Surprise him with a box of novelty condoms. There are many types of condoms
that are downright amusing. Glow-in-the-dark, flavored, shaped... treat them
as a sex toy! Although some of these are not designed for safer sex, it can
help overcome his anxiety.
4) Get an erection ring. These rings go around the base of the penis to increase
hardness and help maintain an erection. An extra benefit is that they can help
keep a condom on if the man becomes partially soft.
Thanks for asking!
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Can you have sex with a yeast infection? Will the man catch anything
or contract it?
Sure, you can have intercourse with a yeast infection, but there are a few things
you should consider. It is possible for your partner to contract it from you
(whether they are male or female). If this happens, your partner should get
treated as well as you.
We don't think of men getting yeast infections, but that’s what "jock
itch" is. Yeast infection are given different names, depending on where
it is on the body. No matter what you call it, it is still a yeast infection.
So, I would advise that you use condoms until your infection is gone.
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I am dating a man with a very large penis. We have had sexual intercourse,
but did not use a condom. He claims he can't use them because they always break.
I don't believe it is possible to be too large to use a condom. Aren't there
oversized condoms available?
Yes, there are oversized, extra large condoms, but those are designed for men
who don't like tight condoms. A regular condom will fit on any size man. Condoms
are tested to hold several liters of water!
If he really is breaking condoms, he is probably using them incorrectly. It
is important to remember to leave space at the end for semen while using plenty
of water-based lubricant. If a condom is installed the right way, they don't
usually break.
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Can
I increase the amount of semen I ejaculate? Porn stars seem to ejaculate large
amounts of fluid and I'd like to be able to wow my partner.
The two biggest factors are genetics (which you have no control over) and time
since your last ejaculation. Most men have found that the longer they go without
sex, the more intense their orgasms are and that there is more “cum”
ejaculated.
Another way to get stronger, more powerful orgasms and ejaculations is to exercise
the muscles at the base of the penis through Kegel exercises. Simply, you contract
and relax the muscles throughout the day. You can locate these muscles by stopping
your urine mid-stream. These are the muscles you want to strengthen. Try different
ways, such as contracting and holding for ten seconds or contracting and relaxing
as rapidly as possible. After several months, you should notice stronger, more
powerful orgasms and ejaculations. While this won't actually increase the volume
of semen, it will appear that you are ejaculating more. The main purpose of
this exercise is to make your orgasms more enjoyable. So get to work.
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I am a 30 year old female who masturbates daily. I have great orgasms
by simply rubbing my clitoris. However, when I have intercourse, it is difficult
for me to have an orgasm. Could this be caused from masturbation?
Most women masturbate by stimulating their clitoris in some way. The clitoris
is the center of sexual pleasure for women, which is why so few women can have
orgasms from intercourse alone. Because you can have orgasms easily on your
own, it should be possible to teach your partner(s). Simply show them how you
like to be stimulated. You can incorporate it into your sexual activities.
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Can a guy tell if you are a virgin when you have sex with him for the
first time?
No. Many men seem to be under the impression that there is some way to tell. He would only know if you told him. What is important is to be yourself and be honest. If you don't feel inclined to share this information, then don't. But I would carefully consider whether you want your first sexual encounter to be with someone you can't share that with.
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Here
is a letter from one of our readers I thought I would share...
I've finally learned . . . I'm 35 and recently divorced out of a 12 year marriage,
during which I think I had an orgasm only once. While waiting for the divorce
I started reading about sex and watching instructional videos and learning to
pleasure myself. I've finally learned that a few things make so much difference.
I think the things that make the most difference for me are enough clitoral
contact before and during - by finding positions where either your rubbing against
him as you're making love, or he can touch you with his hands at the same time.
(You can touch yourself. He actually might get excited by it.)
Entering your vagina from behind, so that he hits my g-spot can also be wonderful
- especially if he touches your clitoris at the same time can also be fantastic.
Perhaps the most important thing to learn, though, was to really work those
pc muscles, squeezing and pulling (the ones they always say are the ones you
would use to stop urine from flowing). It is essential while masturbating, receiving
oral sex or having partner sex. He enjoys it just as much as I do during intercourse.
Using a vibrator really helped me learn too. There are those heavy duty vibes
often used in instructional videos, but they can be too intense sometimes. I
enjoy a less strong one with adjustable speeds. You'll may also want to insert
something (a dildo, some say a peeled cucumber, anything with a size and shape
comfortable for you) just far enough to squeeze those muscles. Jane of Seattle
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