I had an orgasm just by thinking of someone? Is this normal?
Yes, although it is very uncommon for a woman to be able to do this. Known
as "thinking off", an entire book was written about it by Gina Ogden.
No one knows exactly how it is done, but orgasms produced by masturbation do
not differ physiologically from those during intercourse. You should feel extremely
lucky that you are one of the few that can do this. :)
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My boyfriend
almost never orgasms from intercourse alone but needs to masturbate himself
to orgasm. Why does he do this?
Many men and women have trained themselves to orgasm in one special way. After
years of masturbating one certain way, it can become a habit. Still, masturbating
is not bad thing. For most people, it can help them learn what kind of stimulation
they need to have an orgasm. Some however, become a bit rigid and need to expand
themselves. Although, it is completely ok masturbating to orgasm as long as
both of you are enjoy it. He can train himself to have a normal sexual intercourse
though.
Start to have sex the way you normally do. Then, have him masturbate like he
usually does when he is ready to have an orgasm, but don't let him finish. Men
know when they are going to ejaculate. When he reaches that point, you should
switch back to intercourse. Keep doing this for a couple of weeks, then try
to switch to intercourse immediately before the point of no
return. Given some time, eventually it should be possible to switch sooner and
sooner, until you don't need to switch at all, and he can have an orgasm from
intercourse alone.
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I have this problem; I often start laughing in the middle of my orgasm and it is disturbing to my boyfriend. What is going on with me?
Many women laugh or cry during or after orgasm. An orgasm releases tremendous
emotions during this time of physical release. It is also a time during which
we are often at our most vulnerable. This can lead to all sorts of feelings
rushing out.
There is another possibility that you are simply becoming extremely ticklish
right after orgasm, which is not uncommon. Even the slightest touch could send
you into a laughing episode at that time. Reassure him and explain that this
is because you are having such an intense orgasm.
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Occasionally, my fiance goes on business trips and he calls often.
During one of these calls, he started talking about how horny he was and that
he wanted to have phone sex with me. He started talking dirty to me (which I
enjoyed immensely), but I wasn't sure what to say, what words to use, or how
to say it. Do you have any tips for me to be better prepared next time?
Phone sex is great for couples who are apart. It is great that your fiance
felt comfortable enough with you to try this. Here are a few suggestions for
you to prepare for the next time:
There is no right or wrong way to "talk dirty" to your lover, only
that both of you enjoy it. You can reminisce about a prior sexual experience
the two of you had that you found particularly memorable. Explain to him what
you would be doing to him right now if he was there with you and ask him what
he would do to you if he was there with you. Be sure to share fantasies with
each other. Pretend that he is there and explain in detail what you are doing
to him and what he is doing to you. Tell him in detail what you are doing to
yourself and how it feels. Talk to him about what exactly you enjoy when having
sex with him. Masturbate together and just listen to the sounds of each other's
breath.
You can get more suggestions and ways to get started by picking up a copy of
"Exhibitionism for the Shy" by Carol Queen.
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the latest information on sex education and toys as well as a store to purchase
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My boyfriend
almost never orgasms from intercourse alone but needs to masturbate himself
to orgasm. Why does he do this?
