Someone told me to eat an Altoid before oral sex. Any idea what this
is all about?
Mucous membranes, such as the genitals, allow substances to penetrate more
strongly. Altoids create a certain sensation of hot or cold depending on the
giver and what they are doing or how they are breathing. Because Altoids are
stronger than most mints, they have a stronger effect. Other edible mints or
mint flavored items are good as well, but not as strong.
Try putting a couple in your mouth and let them almost totally dissolve and
then lick your partners genitals. It works great on men and women. Good luck
with your experiment. It should be a cool tasty one.
Something else to try is Cum
DLicious. It gives his semen a pleasing erotic cherry flavor.
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I love pleasing my boyfriend with oral sex but I hate swallowing. He says it feels better when I swallow. How can it feel any different than when I spit?
Most men find it extremely exciting to watch their partner swallow their cum.
But where exactly the semen goes after he ejaculates does not have anything
to do with his orgasm.
For many men, it may feel like you are rejecting him if you spit out his semen,
not to mention the site of you cleaning your mouth after having him inside it.
He may feel much more accepted by you if you swallow. But, if you really don't
enjoy it, what can you do? A lot of couples have compromised that if the man
withdraws his penis before his orgasm, he gets to ejaculate on his partners
breasts. On the other hand, you can let his semen slowly, sensuously, drain
out of your mouth all over him and you. He will definitely like that. No matter
what you decide, it will be an improvement over spitting.
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I
have been with my fiance for nearly two years. When we have sex, I always pleasure
him orally; but I only get it maybe 20 percent of the time. He used to go down
on me all the time and I would like to resume this. What can I do without hurting
his feelings?
This is a frequent question to us. People often become too comfortable with
sexual patterns after being together for a while. Talking to your partner is
the key to trying to figure out what it all means.
There are many reasons possible why your partner is not going down on you.
Maybe he does not know that you really like it. Unless you tell him that you
enjoy it or wrap your legs around his neck while he is pleasuring you, he may
not have understand that this is something enjoy and want more of.
Maybe he feels that he is not good at giving oral sex. You may need to be reassuring
him that you enjoy it when he goes down on you.
While you are being sexual with him, tell him how desirable you find him when
he performs oral sex on you. Then, when you are out of the sexual situation,
let him know how much you appreciate him caring about you and making changes
to help better your sex life with him.
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How to give your woman the best oral sex ever
Most women love receiving it; all claims to the contrary, few men love giving
it. I know one man who absolutely refuses to perform cunnilingus on his girlfriend.
"It tastes like fish," he says, wrinkling his nose, "and it takes her too long
to come." Another friend, a gentleman who expects fellatio on a weekly basis,
tells me he doesn't have to perform cunnilingus on his wife because he's able
to give her orgasms during intercourse. Some women won't consider dating a man
if he refuses to go down on her. "I always make sure to ask for cunnilingus
the first time we get naked," says another friend. "That way if he says no,
I can stop dating him before we get too serious. I'm not going to spend my life
giving and never receiving!" Men complain that it takes too long, is uncomfortable
and tastes funny. Women complain that they don't get it as often as they'd like,
and when they do get it, the guy doesn't usually do it right. Ah, cunnilingus:
the relationship deal breaker.
1) The ABC's While every body is different, a few basic things remain the same:
2) Share a shower together before you begin so neither of you have to worry
about unpleasant tastes or odors.
3) Ask your partner what she likes. At the very least, she can say things like
"harder" or "slower" or "more circles."
4) Fill your own mouth with saliva first. Never touch or lick the clitoris
with a dry finger or tongue.
5) Know where the clitoris is but don't dive straight for it. First try gentle
kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva.
6) Tell her how good she looks, smells and tastes.
7) Think variety. If you repeat the same motion, your partner becomes temporarily
insensitive to it, so be sure to vary your stimulation.
8) Let your hands roam. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two.
Once she is highly aroused, you can stimulate the clitoris more directly.
9) Gentle insertion of a finger into the anus can send a woman into paroxysms
of delight. If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you soon enough.
10) Continue to fondle and hold her as she orgasms and after.
11) The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire penis. Be gentle.
12) Unlike men, many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm.
Keep it going until she begs you to stop.
These suggestions should give you a start, but experiment and see what you
and your partner enjoy. The greatest tip of all is to relax and enjoy yourself.
Enthusiasm goes further than even the best of techniques!
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The
Ideal Blow Job
Sucking your man is one of the ultimate pleasures in life. I've been going
down on my man for many years. I have experimented with many styles and gotten
lots of tips from my girlfriends over the years. YES! I do love giving him head.
It's easy to learn how to be a terrific oral partner and I'm going to tell you
exactly how. For the purpose of these tips, let's say you're on a couch. You're
with a man you like and you know he'd love to have a good blow job about now.
Slip down on the floor between his legs and open his fly. Reach in and touch
his penis. If he's hot for you, he will already be hard. If he's nervous, it
may still be bent up inside his shorts. Grab hold of his penis and lean up to
his face and kiss him. Can you feel a response down below now? Any movement
is a good sign. Now pull his penis out and see how it stands. If it's straight
up, you're doing great. If not, here's what you can do:
1. Pull his balls out. If the pants are too tight, pull them down.
2. Now hold his balls in your left hand and his penis in your right. Squeeze
it gently down toward the bottom of the shaft and get ready to suck. Run your
tongue over your lips to get them good and wet and look into your man's face.
He wants to watch you suck him off. Men love to watch. Now open your mouth just
slightly to tease and excite your man and come very close to his penis. Breathe
on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick your tongue out again and reach
for him, tease him.
3. Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his shaft
and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite
of him, gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with your tongue
and use your hand to spread the liquid around if necessary. A wet penis looks
and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one.
4. Your left hand meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratching them
lightly with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behind and underneath
the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area just before the anus, or even
to run your fingers over it very lightly. Since the muscle that causes erection
originates back there, this will produce a reaction in his penis.
5. After you've licked his shaft lots of times and it's all wet and hard, your
man is going to start squirming with frustration if you don't start getting
serious. A quick look up at his face will let you know when you're taking things
too far. Teasing is great...to a point. A little experience in penis-sucking
will educate you as to just when that point has been reached.
6. Lick upwards with your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of
his knob and don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick over the top of his penis,
lingering at the hole in the center. Stick your tongue into it, if you can,
but don't suck the head yet. Now run your tongue around the rim of his knob,
all the way around, making frequent passes on the tender skin directly facing
you. This is where most men are the most sensitive. But not all men! Ask questions.
Each man is unique and so is his penis. Squeeze the shaft and see if some clear
liquid pops up. If it does, dip your tongue into it and pull away. It will stretch
with you and look fantastically erotic to your partner.
7. Now, make like you love the stuff. Close in on the head like it was chocolate
ice-cream and take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Hold it there. Listen
to him moan. Now down quickly and take as much of his penis as you can get into
your mouth. Don't worry, you won't choke. If you bend your neck in just the
right way, you can take it clear into your throat (see deep throating). Stay
there, with the penis down your mouth, for just a moment. Feel it inside of
you. This can be almost as luscious as having one inside you. It grows on you.
8. At this point you can do several things. This is one of them:
A) Slide back up to the tip of the penis and flick your tongue against it. Your
man will be getting antsy now, wanting you to deep-throat him some more. Moving
as fast as he can handle it (don't let him cum yet), slide up and down on his
penis as if he's inside you. If he gets too close to cuming, stop, or at least
slow down. If you can't get all the way down to the bottom of his penis, you
can cheat a little by using that right hand of yours to complete the sensation
of deep throating him. It still looks as if you've got the whole thing in your
mouth and still feels like it. You can also slide your fingers, made in an O-shape
around the shaft, up and down with the rhythm of your sucking.
B) Besides just mouthing it, you can suck it which is quite different. There
are deep-sucks and little ones and both feel really great. Your man may have
a preference, however, so watch his reactions. Taking just the knob in your
mouth, suck it as if it were a nipple or a straw. This feels so good to him;
it makes me hot just thinking about it. The other sucking is a long, sweeping
one, where you take the whole thing and suck it all the way up, like you would
a popsicle and then go back and do it again, sucking on the way down as well.
Here is an important thing to know: Any of these moves will feel great the first
few times or more, but after a while, it's as if the penis gets immune to feeling.
When you sense this, it's time to move onto your next play.
9. You don't want the penis to go to sleep. You want it constantly stimulated,
almost, but not quite, to the point of orgasm which is just about where we are
now. You've got a raging hard-on in your right hand and some tight balls in
your left. Lean back and take a look at it. It's beautiful, isn't it? Move your
right hand all the way to the base of his penis and squeeze it there. This will
cause the shaft to fill and thicken, and by now the knob will be shining and
smooth. Continue to take it into your mouth and suck and try out all your various
moves until you know the man can't stand anymore and he's going to blast off.
10. What you do now is between you and your lover. Personally, I sometimes
like to watch it shoot. It gives me visual images and besides, it's a thrill
to see the spurting cum. It's amazing how much of that stuff comes out and how
far it shoots. If you want to watch, you'll feel it coming with your right hand
and know when to back off. You can even try to catch some on your tongue if
you're fast. You might want to swallow it, some girls do, and lots of guys like
to have it swallowed. Be careful to back up a little when it goes off though
or you'll gag on it and that's not too romantic. Take it into your mouth and
hold it there and then swallow it. Another solution and this is a nice one too,
unless you're making love where you can't make a mess, is to let the warm, wonderful
juices gush into your mouth and then slide around the already wet penis. It
makes it so slippery and delightful to touch! You'll want to run your hands
through it, feeling that hard penis all the way up, smoothing the glistening
cum over the knob. This makes a great sensual image too, for you and for your
man.
Now you've given your man a blow job that he'll not forget. Believe me, if
you follow my instructions, this guy will want to see a lot more of you. One
final suggestion, this time for the men: There's nothing more deadly than having
a man push your head down there. Be patient. If she's into it, she'll get around
to it, sometimes not until the second time you make love. And if you give her
time, she'll learn to like it. If she doesn't enjoy it, perhaps your next lover
will.
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