In the 70s and 80s, sex
ed books taught that it was ok to masturbate as long as you didn't do it
too much. Just what exactly is too much? Well, it seems that they never really
explained what too much is.
It's not about the fact that you masturbate, it is about why you are doing
it. If you are doing it because it feels good, to release stress, celebrate,
or any number of healthy reasons, you can't masturbate too much.
I do not believe that this is considered a sexual addiction, but I do believe
it could be a compulsive sexual behavior. You need to ask yourself if are you
enjoying it when you masturbate, or are you trying to avoid something. If you
are able to eat, sleep, work, go out with friends, etc., then masturbate all
you want!
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I am a 30 year old woman who began to masturbate around three months ago. I
never had much interest in masturbating when I was a teenager, but I am really
enjoying pleasuring myself. I have found myself masturbating several times a
day. I am beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me because I enjoy
pleasuring myself so much. Do I need help?
People usually begin masturbating as children or teenagers. It is not unusual
for women to begin pleasuring themselves at a later age. It's not that surprising
when you think about all of the negative pr that people have received about
masturbation over the years.
In our younger years, we are often only taught about the dangers and consequences
of having sex. Rarely, are we taught about the importance of sexual pleasure.
Touching ourselves feels great, but for some reason, masturbation has been perceived
as a bad and perverted thing.
Masturbating several times a day does not alert me that you are out of control.
Everyone's sex drive is different. If you were to be masturbating all
day long everyday and unable to work or do anything else, I would say that you
were a good candidate for therapy and suggest you find a good therapist. Since
this does not seem to interfere with your daily life, I would not worry about
it. Enjoy yourself and know that most people do the same thing!
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I
have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and the whole time he has been unable
to stop masturbating. I have let him know that I am upset about it and he constantly
tells me he will quit. Problem is that I always catch him within two weeks at
it again. I always try to please him; but for some reason I cant do it to his
satisfaction. We love each other, and he worries I will leave him because of
it (which I might) -- but he still won't stop. What can I do?
First off, this is something that you both need to discuss and work on as
a couple. This certainly is not something that is wrong that necessarily needs
to be changed.
Masturbation is not a substitution for sex. Masturbating has nothing to do
with his desire for you. People masturbate for many reasons, only a few are
an alternative for sex with a partner.
Making him promise not to masturbate is certainly not going to help the situation.
Most men and woman continue to masturbate after they are in a relationship.
He may be sincere when he promises you to not do it anymore, but it is human
nature and he will probably masturbate again. It's definitely better to
talk about it than to give ultimatums. I am sure you can find a way that both
of you can be happy and have your needs met. If you require that your partners
are not allowed to masturbate, you may find yourself alone and lonely in this
world.
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My husband won't let me watch him masturbate. I really get turned on watching
men masturbate, but he says it's too embarrassing. Any suggestions on
how I can get him to let me watch him masturbate? He masturbates all the time
and we've shared everything else; he just won't do this. Is this a normal
reaction for him to be embarrassed?
You should feel lucky for being so comfortable with your sexuality and your
partners that you find yourself able to masturbate without inhibitions.
Reassure your husband that there is nothing embarrassing about masturbation
and that you would like to watch him masturbate. But I think you need to give
him some time. If you masturbate
in front of him, you will make him feel that this is nothing to be embarrassed
about.
Later on after he relaxes a bit, he may still feel a little strange about masturbating
in front of you, but you can help him to overcome this. You might want to start
by masturbating mutually with the lights out. Eventually, he will probably be
more comfortable about masturbating in front of you.
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I
use a shower massager to masturbate and orgasm. Is there any danger to my body?
A shower massager is one of most popular ways of masturbating for women. In
fact, one study shows this method to come in third in the most popular ways
that woman orgasmed (just after hands and rubbing against an object).
It is difficult to harm to your body by masturbating no matter which way you
do it. If it hurts, then don’t do it. About the worst thing that could
happen with a shower massager is that if a lot of water were to enter your vagina
it could upset the natural balance and make you susceptible to a yeast infection.
To avoid this, concentrate the water on the outside and don't put the shower
massager directly against or inside your vagina. Hope this helps!
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I'm 77 and I still enjoy masturbation. My wife died 6 months ago and I now
masturbate more often than ever, about once a day. Am I ok?
Although people are often mistaken that sexuality is somehow reserved for young
people, there is nothing wrong with masturbating at any age. Studies show that
rates of masturbation do not really decline until people reach their 90s.
In this case, I can certainly understand how you might want to masturbate more
now that your wife is no longer with you. It’s healthy! There has been
speculation that frequent ejaculations can help keep the prostate healthy, which
is more of a concern as men get older. May the force be with you!
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I am a 35 year old married woman, and have been married for ten years.
Do most men and women continue to masturbate even after marriage? I do and just
was wondering if this is
normal.
Yes! You are absolutely normal. The majority of men and women do continue to
masturbate when they are in a relationship. Research shows that people who masturbate
more have more satisfying sex.
Many couples masturbate together and it is a very intimate sexual. Mutual masturbation
is often practiced during phone sex and cyber sex when they can't be together.
Masturbating is a great way to learn about your own body, which invariably
makes for better sex. Men use masturbation to learn how to control their orgasms,
while women can learn how to have orgasms more easily. Enjoy!
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How can you make semen taste better?
You are what you eat. Common sense dictates that if you taste good, your lover
will want to eat you more often, so improving your body's taste and smell should
be important to you.
Sweet, acidic substances supposedly show up as a sweetish taste in semen,
but it's what you haven't eaten, drunk, or otherwise consumed that makes the
biggest difference.
The perfect recipe:
plenty of water
little dairy
no caffeine (or cocaine, or similar, bitter alkaloids)
no smoking
Another huge factor in semen taste is alcohol consumption. If you think this
sounds like a doctor's prescription for a long and healthy life, you're right,
but it's just a coincidence. Acidic fruits, such as sweets, and fruits give
bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor. I have also heard that porn stars eat
a lot of celery. It supposedly makes for very pleasant tasting semen. Nutritionists
say that alkaline-based foods, meats and fish, produce a bitter, fishy taste.
Chemically processed liquors will cause an extremely acidic taste, however,
so if you're going to drink alcohol, drink high-quality, naturally fermented
beers (Rolling Rock or Kirin) or sake. Hard liquor especially can make your
semen extremely bitter. Dairy products, which contain high bacterial putrefaction
levels create the worst tasting fluids. Only one other food causes semen to
taste worse - asparagus. You can't miss the taste of asparagus-laced semen.
These same principles apply to women as well. Something else to try is a product
we sell, Cum
DLicious. It adds a nice cherry flavor to his semen.
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